Super Bowl Sunday is coming up this week.

Not literally, but for those of us who serve on staff at a church, the equivalent is right around the corner: Easter. It’s the biggest Sunday of the year in a lot of ways—the one people circle on the calendar, the one that carries a little extra energy and anticipation.

And if I’m being honest, it’s my favorite Sunday of the year.

There’s something about it that I can’t quite shake. Part of it is nostalgic—memories, traditions, moments that stay with you. But nostalgia by itself isn’t enough to sustain something like this.

Because the truth is, every single Sunday we gather is built on the same reality. We meet on Sundays because of the resurrection of Jesus. Every week is anchored in that same victory, that same hope, that same gospel.

And yet… Easter still feels different.

Good Friday is another one for me, in a very different way but just as meaningful.

I often think about what Christ’s followers must have felt in those hours after His death. Everything they had hoped in suddenly looked like it had come undone. It had to have been confusing. Disorienting. Deflating.

It didn’t feel like redemption.
It didn’t feel like victory.
It felt like the end.

I’ve been part of Good Friday services that were deeply somber, and others that carried a more reflective tone. But the ones that have stayed with me the most are the ones that simply let you sit in it.

Not rushing past it.
Not resolving it too quickly.
Just letting the weight of the cross settle in.

Because when you really consider what Christ endured—and what it cost—it’s heartbreaking.

And maybe that’s part of the point.

Easter only lands as deeply as Good Friday is felt honestly.

The joy of the resurrection is magnified when we’ve first come to terms with the weight of the cross. If we skip too quickly to celebration, we risk missing the fullness of what we’re actually celebrating.

So here’s the question I’ve been wrestling with:

What would it look like to carry that awareness with us all year long?

Not just on a holiday weekend…
not just when the calendar tells us to slow down and reflect…
but in the ordinary rhythms of life.

What would it look like for every Sunday to carry the wonder of Easter—
and for every day to hold a quiet awareness of Christ’s sacrifice?

I don’t think the answer is trying to recreate Easter.

We don’t need to manufacture emotion or force significance into every moment. That kind of pressure actually works against what we’re longing for.

Instead, I think it looks like learning to notice.

To notice the weight of sin—and the grace that meets it.
To notice the small, everyday evidences of resurrection life.
To notice the kindness, patience, and mercy of God showing up in ordinary moments.

It looks like slowing down enough to remember what’s true.

Jesus died.
Jesus rose.
And that reality is still active today.

Maybe it’s as simple as this:

Let Good Friday teach us to take sin seriously.
Let Easter teach us to take hope seriously.

And let both shape how we live every other day in between.

Because if that’s true—and it is—
then Easter isn’t just a day we celebrate.

It’s a reality we live from.

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